Brody Holloway


7 Ways to Combat Entitlement

As Christians, we must continually grow a biblical understanding of God (Joshua 6:1-2) and never give in to a sense of entitlement. We deserve nothing more than death, hell, and condemnation by God. He has given us MORE than we deserve! Receive gifts from God with thanksgiving! Enjoy what He has provided—every good and perfect gift comes from God.

How do we combat entitlement?

  1. Work harder than anyone else. (1 Thessalonians 4, 2 Thessalonians 3:6)
  2. Give, give, give. (Malachi 3:6-10)
  3. Take care of what you have.
  4. Be hospitable, invite people into your lives.
  5. Give to the poor.
  6. Give your time to others. Give of yourselves to The Lord.
  7. Understand who you belong to.

*The excerpt above is from a sermon Brody Holloway taught on Exodus 20:15 at Red Oak Church, June 2014. 

Trying to Love Like Jesus
Photo taken by  Ellis Illustrations

Photo taken by Ellis Illustrations

This excerpt is a journal entry I wrote in 2014 when we were in Uganda spending our first few days with JuJu and Moses, my two youngest.  It was a difficult time and their's was a difficult background.  The Lord has been faithful to our family and we are celebrating the finalization of the adoption this week!  Praying for God’s hand of favor on these two little ones, daily.  Since this was written, JuJu has put her faith and trust in Jesus and is doing exceptionally well in school as well as in her own young faith walk.  We are praying for the day when Mo receives the Gospel and puts his trust in Jesus and His Gospel.  JuJu is in second grade and Moses in Pre-K.  Praise the Lord for his goodness and grace in our family!


We are learning a lot on this journey.  Adoption is always hard.  Adoption is always worth the fight.  We didn’t come in here with any preconceived or romanticized ideas.  We knew it would be hard :the long days of waiting for the next appointment, the attachment issues, the task of giving love to someone who has never experienced it, and may not always want it.  But as the saying goes, “The reward is worth the risk."

This evening, our new daughter was standing alone in the yard, in the dark, crying softly.  Kilby found her, and brought her to me.  As I held her and stroked her hair and gently wiped her tears, I told her the things I would tell either of my other daughters.  “I love you”.  “Jesus loves you”.  “It will be okay”.  I spoke Psalm 23 over her, made up a song, and sung to her.  And then it dawned on me… "You can cry as long as you want to." You don’t have to stop crying.  In a culture of survival, I wonder if she has ever felt the freedom to cry.  Or, maybe, she has spent a lot of nights crying herself to sleep.  I don’t know.  I don’t speak the same earthly language as her, and I am not sure she would have given me answers to those questions even if she could.  The language barrier was shattered by gentle hands, soft words, and tight squeezes, and hopefully the love of an earthly father that reflects a God she will soon know.  After half hour, Little took her to her bed, and rubbed her little scarred belly and arms, until she slept.  Now, she is peacefully resting, and I hope and want to believe feeling a little more secure. 

Loving someone who doesn’t understand your love is as good a picture of the Gospel as I have ever seen. 




Romans 16:25-27

"Now to him who is able to strengthen you according to my Gospel and the proclamation about Jesus Christ, according to the revelation of the mystery kept silent for long ages but now revealed and made known through the prophetic Scriptures, according to the command of the eternal God to advance the obedience of faith among all the Gentiles—to the only wise God, through Jesus Christ—to Him be glory forever! Amen."

How do we get stronger?  Strength is gained through WORK.  No one lays around, watches Netflix, plays video games, and simultaneously gets stronger.  I remember as a kid in elementary school that my dad and uncle were power lifters.  My dad’s best friend was a world-champion power lifter who holds record in the Master category to this day.  Power lifting is a type of weightlifting that requires lifting really heavy stuff off the ground and then putting it back down again.  There are a few different lifts that are used.  All of them are major movements that are designed to push a person to extreme limits.  

I would come home from school and my dad and uncle would be in the basement of the house lifting, and the sounds coming out of that basement were INTENSE.  They didn’t have a normal set of weights like you might find at a fitness equipment store.  Instead, they had fabricated their own equipment from various parts of heavy equipment.  This stuff was heavy!  One set of plates weighed ninety pounds each—double that of traditional weight lifting plates!  The sound of those heavy plates dropping or hitting metal racks, along with the barbaric grunts of my father and the motivating yells of my uncle was almost scary.  I was used to it, but it was always funny when I would have a friend over during my dad’s workouts.  The look on the kid’s face would be priceless when he heard the noise from the basement.  It was almost like he thought someone was being assaulted down in the dungeon!  I would smile and say, “Oh that is just my dad and uncle lifting weights.  They always yell a lot.” 

Getting stronger is hard, and requires a lot of gritty work.  There is no easy path to it.  But along with hard work, there is a need for good nutrition and rest.  Competitive athletes and weightlifters take these two things seriously.  Work, nutrition and rest are all so important for strength and growth. 

The same is true of us if we are to grow stronger in our faith and our Christianity. We need to understand the balance of work, spiritual nutrition, and spiritual rest.  We work in obedience, and we rest in Christ.  Consider the 5 things this passage tells us will strengthen us in our Christian walk.

  1. According to the Gospel.
  2. The proclamation of Jesus Christ.—2 Timothy 1:7-8, "for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.  Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony about our Lord."
  3. The Word of God— "according to the revelation of the mystery kept silent for long ages but now revealed and made known through the prophetic Scriptures."
  4. Obedience to God— "According to the command of the eternal God to advance the obedience of faith among all the Gentiles."
  5. Worship— "To the only wise God, through Jesus Christ—to Him be glory forever."


Let Doubt Drive You to Christ

­Romans 11:33-36

"Oh the depth of the riches, the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are his judgements and how inscrutable His ways! 'For who has known the mind of the Lord, or who has been His counselor? Or who has given a gift to Him that He might be repaid?' For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things. To Him be glory forever. Amen."

This past year, we saw massive destruction caused by hurricanes in Puerto Rico, Texas and Florida. Here in the mountains of NC, we watched and prayed for the people living in these areas and for those of you living in areas affected. Many not only saw it but they lived it out first hand. 

Back in 2004 a giant tsunami hit land in the Indian Ocean.  Tens of thousands of people were killed.  This catastrophe was the biggest tidal wave of the last century, and early that morning, no one knew what was about to hit them.  So much damage was caused that entire cities had to be rebuilt in the aftermath.  Many people were on vacation and lost their lives at a time and place they should have been relaxing and relieving stress. 

There was one interesting group of people I read about during this time.  There was a team of scuba divers who were out on a morning dive enjoying the beauty of the ocean’s depths.  When the wave hit, they had no idea of the chaos passing above them.  They described the experience as “being in a washing machine”.  They tumbled and were tossed around but they were safe.  The reason they didn’t suffer death was because they were deep enough down in the ocean that they remained somewhat stable. 

In James 1, the Bible says that doubt causes us to be tossed about like a wave of the sea.  The best way to deal with the storms of doubt, anxiety and fear in my life is to dive deeper into the depths and truths of God’s Word and of personal praise and worship of Jesus. 

Romans 11:33-36 gives us two great truths to hold onto when we are facing the storms of doubt and fear. 

1.    Dive deeper into our knowledge of God.  He is infinite in His being.  Our problems are temporary, but our God is infinite and the knowledge that comes from knowing Him and His Word will strengthen us. 

2.    Praise HIM!!!  The Bible says that He literally dwells with us in the midst of our praising Him.

How about you?  When doubts, fears or anxieties arise do you try to deal with it on your own?  Do you look to others to help you?  Look to Jesus and His Word!  He will strengthen you, grow you and keep you. 


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Mark 10: The Rich Young Ruler

Mark 10:17-31
The Rich Young Ruler

Big points: Money can’t get you into heaven. Good works can’t get you into heaven. Salvation is impossible unless God saves us. We ALL need to be saved. There are often idols in our lives that keep us from Jesus, but one day those idols will be worth nothing.

In this story, a young man comes to Jesus with some very important questions that we should all consider. What are the questions the man asks Jesus?

The Bible calls this man “The Rich Young Man”, or, “The Rich Young Ruler”. The man is a ruler of a synagogue, and he is very successful. He has made a lot of money at being a “good and religious” person. Can money or religion get a person into heaven?

In verse 18, Jesus says that no one is good. He is saying that no one is good enough to save their self from their own sin. In verse 27, He says it is IMPOSSIBLE to save yourself. But in both verse 18 and verse 27 He also gives us the hope of how we can be saved. What is that hope?

The man replies to Jesus’ answers and questions by saying that he is good, and has kept all of The Commandments. Read James 2:10. The man tells Jesus that he has obeyed all of The Commandments. Do you think he really had? Talk about the impossibility of keeping The Law perfectly.

Some people think that just because they come from a Christian family, they are automatically Christians. This man told Jesus that he had been good from the time he was young. Does everyone really need Jesus to save him or her? Why can’t we just do good and then Jesus will accept our good works and we can be saved?

In the Second Commandment, we were warned about having gods and idols that were more important to us than Jesus. This man has chosen to worship something other than Jesus. What is it?

So, we see that idols don’t have to be little, carved statues. An idol is anything you love or hold onto more than Jesus. Do you have idols in your own life that maybe stand in the way of obedience to Christ? What are they? What can you do about it?


In verses 29-31 Jesus says that no matter what we give up in this life, Jesus is better, and the life to come will be greater. Take some time to pray and ask God to give you the faith you need to live this life, in this world, worshipping and loving Jesus above all things.